Last Sunday, while stuck on the coast of Oregon, I attended a wonderful
Presbyterian church. If the main line church is dead, then somebody forgot
to tell these people. It was a thriving congregation and I marveled at
the service.
As I arrived the parking lot was full, with cars jammed in all sorts of
ways. I parked on the grass. Organized 149 years ago, this historic church
gave off the aroma of 'permanence' as if to say, 'We've been through the
civil war, both world wars, the depression, Viet Nam, and Watergate, --
we'll survive anything else coming our way. Evangelical churches seldom
possess this sense of permanence. The worship atmosphere was charged with
expectation and meaning. I worshipped.
I wasn't sure where this was going when the music started. Singing was
led by a thirty-fiveish woman sprouting spiked jet black hair leaping from
her head like an erupting volcano. I figured she probably belonged to the
Sierra club, ate granola and her Volvo displayed a 'Save the Whales"
bumper sticker. I groaned. But, she got the people singing. It sounded
like a thousand voices filling the church. She scolded the people a bit
for 'wanting only familiar Christmas songs,' warning that they'd be singing
mostly old songs, not 'the popular songs of the last 100 years.' (?!)
Speaking of hymns, we sang five full hymns, two before preaching and three
afterward, none of them back to back. People sang heartily, accompanied
by what looked like a 100 year old organ (played by a lady only a bit younger).
The music 'filled' the room encouraging me to sing louder myself.
The boomerish pastor was shinny bald on top, but compensated with a bonus
crop of hair around the edges and over his ears. He had earned a doctorate
from some university in Germany I can neither pronounce nor spell. His
message was about the only source of hope for today: the Word of God and
they acted like it. The order of service featured a long Old Testament
reading, a responsive Psalm, a New Testament reading plus a lengthy Gospel
reading. (I wonder why evangelical churches who prattle the most about
the authority of Scripture act the least like it really is important to
a worship service?)
Right before the offering, the pastor came down among the people and asked
for prayer requests, which turned out to be sort of like 'testimonies'
covering the physical needs of the people plus the homeless shelter the
church sponsored 'in town.' He then prayed at a leisurely pace -- for several
minutes -- with great pauses between sentences as if he expected us to
fill in the dead space with our own prayers. The sacrament of holy communion
was served with four women distributing the elements.
The service lasted exactly one hour, which amazed me -- they seemed to
do so much in an hour, yet were not rushed. Following the service we were
all invited to the back of the sanctuary for coffee and heaps of home made
cookies and tiny little sandwiches.
I liked the service. I liked the people. There was a *thriving* atmosphere,
as if they knew what they were about and where they were going. If I were
moving into the community and didn't have a church, I'd sure consider this
one.
But what is most shocking about my visit is their size. About half way
through the service I counted (I confess, I'm a recovering Boomer!). How
many were there? Fifty-two. I counted again. Sure enough, fifty-two. The
actual church building only measured 24' X 24' with an 'addition' of about
the same size (I checked the drywall seams). They had only twelve pews.
Each looked crammed if it boasted five people. More than twenty people
sat in chairs set up along the edges, which gave an 'overflow crowd' feel
to the service. The cream painted walls were set off with sparkling white
wood trim. There was a single window facing South -- a simple stained glass
one.
What haunted me as I left... no, it outright *irritated* me.. is how this
little church of 52 seemed so successful... so thriving. Didn't they know
they were considered a failure among the church growth gurus? What right
did they have to act so happy, so joyful, so satisfied with their little
dinky church of 52? A church of 52 isn't viable -- haven't they read the
same books I have? And another thing, why would a guy with an earned doctorate
from a prestigious German university act so happy pastoring 52 people?
Where'd he get his notions of success from? Doesn't he know that he'll
never be invited to speak at a ministers' conference to tell others how
he did it? Why waste his life away in a church of 52? What was going on
here?
I left church last Sunday wondering what these people had that most evangelical
churches have lost. Evangelicals are always reaching forward for success.
Always striving, never thriving. This sense of *thriving* always seems
just around the corner... when we reach 100, or 300, or 1,000, or after
we get our new building. But it is seldom a present-tense experience. Like
drinking seawater, we can't get enough, and the more we drink, the thirstier
we get. Yet, this little Presbyterian church of fifty-two seemed to focus
more on *being* the church, than *growing* the church. I can't get that
little congregation out of my mind. The have something to teach us all.
What do you think? What gives this sense of *thriving* to a church? What
can we learn from them?